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Women, this is what the men you’re looking for are looking for [warning: their expectations are more realistic than yours tend to be]:
The Formula: Z% of Gender A goes after top Y% of X% of Gender B who goes after top W% of Gender B, using the judging-of-Gender-A-by-Gender-B criteria that follow.